In these confusing times, women receive therapy especially within the confines of the church. We can wear rings on any finger of choice. I choose to wear my hope ring one my wedding band finger. I am single, no children, never been pregnant. But I choose to say that I am married to the church. I am Presbyterian, not Catholic. I am not a nun. I am not even a sister because the Presbyterians do not have Protestant sisters like other Protestant faiths. But as a liberated woman of the 21st century, this is my personal choice.